John Lee D. Limbaga
People! This is not about the little thing called LOVE. It is finding the “good” in the word goodbye. After all the collateral damage is done on a person there would be a time that the mind beats for sorrowful blank thoughts and the heart thinks being hurt would mean letting go and moving on. As they say, “Man is the cerebrum, woman is the heart.” If they think alike, they become one but if they think on contrary the tendency is they find another one. But in my own perspective and alignment of thinking, I would rather say “Boys get the pleasure, girls get the pain.” I would not expound on that anymore, it’s self-explanatory.
For everyone who were cheated, for those who were left behind, for those who were taken for granted. The best revenge is just moving on and getting over it. Don’t give someone the satisfaction of watching you suffer because in the end you will be the biggest loser. Some piece of advice for those who are lost and doesn’t know where to begin, do it one step at a time. I will tell you a silly statement, tell those who hurt you that they are like computers; they need to be shut down because your feelings might restart at any possible time. Moreover, I know it’s hard to convince yourselves that you have picked up the broken pieces of your heart but wake up because your light and shining armor or your gorgeous princess is already gone they maybe for someone else story and you’re nothing but a mere cast to have their story a little bit of twist and that’s what you call “LOVE HURTS” what else you can do? Move on right? Yes it would probably tear you down, you strained to hold on but it hurts too much and I bet you forgive and forget but it was not enough to make it all ok. What you should do is think that it is perhaps mind over matter, this time love yourself more than others. Do the things you love, talk to your friends because they got your back, and lastly to have that good vibes pray and ask God to give you a trusting heart not a questioning mind.
There is always “good” in goodbyes because it opens up new opportunities to seek, a start of something new, a step forward from the past and I suppose a happy ending even if both of you were meant to be or yet supposed to be together. Nonetheless, just because lips have met doesn’t mean hearts have joined and not just because two bodies were drawn from each other doesn’t mean two people were right for each other. A physical relationship doesn’t equal love. Find the good in goodbyes it will be peculiar but it helps in moving on. As for the song of Air Supply continue to make love out of nothing at all.